Share Social Anxiety: Why do people have to be so mean? Me: They don’t “have” to be mean. If they are mean, they just are, but they don’t “have” to be. That doesn’t make sense. It’s just like saying, “Why does there have to be oxygen around me?” The question is invalid because there is [...]

Share   People Worries Are On Your Mind If you have Social Anxiety you probably have a person or people on your mind right now or recently that you  have been worrying about. It’s this persons/peoples criticism, negative judgment, or any sort of possible negative intentions towards you that you have detected and have been worrying [...]

Share Is this the MAIN ingredient in causing everyones social anxiety? UNKIND JUDGMENT People with social anxiety have received way too much UNKIND JUDGMENT. (possibly from others but most importantly from their self) They received so much UNKIND JUDGMENT that they decided they JUST WEREN’T GOOD ENOUGH for social interaction, even social interaction necessary for [...]